June 26

Hmm . . . seems like a significant date, for some reason.

But I wonder what that reason could possibly be . . .

Taking a break

Yep, I’m doing it. I’m officially taking a break from SL. I haven’t been on much recently, anyway, so it’s really not a big deal at this point. Announcing it gives me something to put on the blog, though

Love you all I’ll see you whenever I come back.

<3 Chloe

An announcement

I’ve been debating for a long time about if and when to make this announcement. It is something very personal, but since it doesn’t just concern me, I’ve been hesitant to talk about it. I decided that I finally have to blog about it, as it will come up sooner or later, anyway. Anyone who knows me should know that I can’t hold off blogging about something for too long . . .

Hmm . . . now how to begin?

Recently, Tobie and I decided that maybe we would be better off as friends than as a couple. We really didn’t have much time for each other anymore, and that was hurting the relationship we had.

I guess I don’t feel much like talking about it right now, other than to say that both of us agreed that this would be best. I will continue to love Tobie as one of the best friends I could possibly hope for.

Second Life’s Next Top Model

So, my friend Keeley is now a model in SL. She was discovered one day while she was out shopping. I can’t say how happy I am for her! It’s very cool that she is receiving recognition for the work she has put in to making her avie so beautiful

This Friday, Keeley is participating in a fashion show, and I’m really excited that I’m going to get to see her in it! It’s great to see a good friend getting some attention

On an unrelated note, May 2008 was the least active month in the history of Streeter Scene. I’m hoping that June doesn’t follow that trend. I just need to see more of my SL friends (hint!) around to get me excited about the platform again. Keeley mentioned an idea for a build that she has been considering, so maybe if she proceeds with that and I get involved, it will motivate me again.

OK, that’s it for now. Be back soon

At long last . . . the anniversary

How anyone has managed to deal with me for an entire year is beyond me, but today marks my and Tobie’s first anniversary.

So, um, yeah . . . it might not be the best time to contact me if you see me in world tonight

A brief note about WordPress’s “possibly related post” feature

It sucks. It linked from a blog post about a RL tornado to my Damnation post, which was about a pic I put together and posted to Flickr.

Whomever the unfortunate soul was who came here looking for anything to do with tornadoes, I apologize.

One year ago today . . .

On May 2, 2007, while she and I were at Curious Kitties shopping, Tobie gave me the push that would lead to our relationship and a year of wonderful memories

For the occasion, I made this video showcasing some of our best times together.

A better version can be found here in my Flickr stream.

Love you, kitten

Where are you going, where have you been?

So, when did you say I can expect the bus?

Today, I’ve been thinking of all that has transpired in the nearly fifteen months I’ve been in SL. I know what you’re thinking (yes, I can read minds—forget Miss Cleo, Miss Chloe is the real deal!). How is this any different than what I normally do? Haven’t we all been reading post after post of me mulling over all the details of my Second Life and what they mean?

Well, yeah, I suppose so. That’s just the way I am and, in all likelihood, it’s the way I will continue to be.

Anyway, it’s interesting for me to look back over 200+ posts and see where I’ve been. While I still believe I am neurotic as ever , there are differences in me. I think I’m a little more secure with myself. I entered SL at a time when my RL was beginning to come apart, and I think that it has helped me to maintain a little bit of sanity. On the other hand, SL has actually been a source of stress in RL. There have been times when things go badly in SL, and I find myself bummed and frustrated in RL. It is as if there is a symbiotic relationship now between the two lives. They can feed off of one another in beneficial ways, but the potential remains for one to affect the other negatively.

After looking at where all I’ve been in SL—the good friends I’ve made, the things I’ve seen, the lessons I’ve learned, the mistakes I’ve made, and the love I’ve found—I of course have to wonder what lies ahead. I am on the verge of partnering with Tobie (yes, we’re moving ahead with the plans), something that has been a long time coming. I will have been with her for a year on May 6, and though we’ve had to weather my six months of dial-up, her ascension to a very time-consuming role with the Catwalkers, and my neuroses , we remain together. The thought of partnering with her makes me smile, and I am looking for the day that we can share our happiness with the ones we care about most in SL.

But what then?

We’ve all heard that life is not about the destination, but the journey. My journey has been long to get to this point, and it is culminating with a marriage to the cutest and coolest neko in SL . . . not to mention the biggest smart ass on the grid I am very curious what the next journey will be. Hopefully, it does not lead to Arnold Friend, like the protagonist the story from which this post steals its name.

And I hope, very sincerely, that those of you who take the time to check my blog continue on the journey with me

A side note for those of you who have read the story from which this post steals its name—remove the “r”s from “Arnold Friend” and see what is left. I just learned about this tonight

Birthday wishes

Two of the people whom I really care about in SL are having their birthdays tomorrow (because it’s still Saturday here) and on Monday, so I’m sending out the best birthday wishes ever to both of them

Happy birthday, you two! All my love to you both!

Make new friends, but keep the old . . . part 2

So, as I was none-too-discreetly called out for not mentioning my friend the Professor in the last post, I will do so now

I met the good Professor back when I bought my first land in Farstone. We were neighbors for a time, and I think we got along at first because I was teaching freshman composition then. Though I haven’t had the opportunity to spend much time with the Professor since moving away from Farstone, but we have had some memorable times. I even got him to buy his first prim hair, though I’m still not entirely sure he’s sold on it Anyway, I have spoken to the Professor a couple of times recently after a very long period of silence (which I blame him for). It’s been good to reconnect with a friend from the early days

Last night, I got to spend some time with Rosie, and not at the club this time We did a little bit of exploring and talking and being stalked by a guy who shed his clothes at one point to show us his prim penis. Yep, another smooth character Rosie and I finished the night by going and seeing some of the buildings her friend Nate Ninetails had made. It was very cool to see what he had done, and I commented a few times on how I could have used his buildings for Kyūketsuki. I also met his RL and SL wives, though I really did not get a chance to talk to either, since we were moving around so much looking at his buildings. As we were saying our goodbyes, he dropped one of his buildings in my inventory, which was very cool. Now, if I just had a place to rez it . . .

OK, I have to wrap this up, as it’s time to leave for work. <3 you all

Chloe